The Best Products for Waxing at Home, According to Skin-Care Experts (2024)

As someone who’s perpetually hairy and has a low tolerance for pain, finding wax strips that don’t hurt like hell has been something of a journey. My go-to is the oft-socialed Flamingo Body Wax Kit, which the Cut’s Kathleen Hou wrote doesn’t hurt much more than “yanking off a bandaid.” This has also been my experience, and the wide wax strips make it easy to use them until the area is hairless and smooth. The kit comes with 24 wax strips and six post-wax cloths which help to clean up the stickiness the strips leave behind. I like that you don’t have to heat the wax up (been there, burned myself) and that each pull apart strip is good for a least two pulls, often more.

“If you’re going for a more traditional at-home wax experience, I’d try the Bliss Kit — the blue wax is hard to miss,” says Brittania Boey, the head of research and development and product innovation Harry’s and Flamingo. “The Bliss Kit is a hot wax, so it requires a little more preparation and bravery, but it does a great job at grabbing fine hairs.” Like the Gigi waxing kit, the Bliss Poetic Waxing Kit requires heating the wax first (though in your microwave, not a heating pot), and applying with a spatula. Unlike the Gigi kit, this one doesn’t need muslin strips — you just rip the wax off once it hardens. “Pull your skin taught and rip in the opposite direction your hair grows, parallel to your skin,” she explains. “Approach it like you’re teaching a kid to remove a band-aid, that way the pain is just physical; if you move too slow, the pain becomes emotional.” She also notes that even with the right tools, “waxing is a traumatic experience for your skin, so it helps that [Bliss’s] wax is free of fragrance and parabens, and the kit comes with post-wax essentials to clean and calm your skin.”

If you don’t want to splurge on a full kit for your face, Kristina Rodulfo, senior beauty editor at Elle.com, has an inexpensive recommendation that you can find at most drugstores: Nair’s Hair Remover Wax Strips. She likes them because “you don’t need any extra tools, and they don’t require pre-warming so you can just use them right out of the box.” Rodulfo notes that the strong formula can remove even coarse hair from the root, which will save you from having to go over the same spot several times. “I have pretty sensitive skin that’s gotten swollen and red from salon waxes, but this is gentle enough for me.”

“To avoid ingrowns, it’s always good to exfoliate your body — not just right before, but the day before, a couple days before, and really on a regular basis,” says Cassella. She recommends dry brushing over using exfoliant scrubs, because it’s less messy, and dry brushing “is good for your skin in general — and great to increase circulation.” Cassella notes it’s best to dry brush before showering, and to brush from the bottom of your body upward in long strokes. “The rule is always working up towards your heart.” She did not recommend a dry brush by name, but our friends at the Cut like this one (just heed their warning not to brush too hard on sensitive skin).

This scrub is a sister product of body hair-care company Fur’s Fur Oil, a pubic hair conditioner we’ve written about before (Shen Beauty aesthetician Lara Kaiser previously recommended it to us as one of the best things to treat and prevent razor bumps). Sara Jane Eammons, Fur’s Associate Manager of Brand Development, suggests using the scrub before waxing, because it “contains both physical and chemical exfoliants to really make sure the dead skin is sloughed away for radiant resurfacing.”

When we talked to Kaiser last year, she told us Fur Oil is an “antiseptic” product that “helps soften hair and hair regrowth.” It’s formulated with moisturizing grape-seed and jojoba oils, as well as tea tree oil — all of which help keep sensitive pores clean, according to Eammons, who notes “a lot of salons that carry Fur products will actually apply a tiny bit of Fur Oil before a wax, to soften the skin.”

In addition to redness and irritation, some people (like me) can experience post-wax hyperpigmentation due to the trauma the skin experiences from waxing (this is common with darker skin tones). I like to use a little hydrocortisone on areas that look irritated after waxing (particularly ones with aloe, like this one). This helps reduce the risk of hyperpigmentation, and soothes any irritation as well.

I also like to use a broad spectrum SPF after I wax, specifically Supergoop’s Unseen Sunscreen. Sunscreen is the best way to combat hyperpigmentation, no matter where it crops up, so I use this in the morning to help any darkened areas fade more quickly.

For calming skin after a bikini wax, Ninomiya suggests Soothe: Calming Cream from Rosebud Woman, which she says “can help care for the delicate skin.”

To treat ingrown hairs that grow after a wax, Ninomiya recommends using this gel. While it’s “designed for male skin suffering razor burns and ingrown facial hairs,” she says it is “also effective on female skin with ingrowns anywhere.”